conflict of interest..

It all starts after an unwanted afternoon doze.. my face looks fat.. its hot all around and the stupid fan fails to do anything.. and shit.. i have a heartburn.. only thing left to do is go online and talk to the rest of the geeks out there.. :P and where does this post lunch post nap chatting sessions lead to? well.. read on!!

OK!! Dont deny it.. you were all once 22 or you will be.. or you are.. or lets say, you guys.. im not talking for girls here for i dont know.. All of you have at some point had your body taken over by your hormones and felt the urge to do something.. yeah well you all jacked off and relieved yourself or maybe you have so much self control that you suppressed that urge.. no.. this not specifically what i wanted to talk about.. but! the question that I wanted to ask was that, do you think it is ok to be physical(as in make love, have sexual intercourse.. et cetera) in a relationship knowing that the future is uncertain?

I've seen people who would just get into a short fling, even faking love to get laid.. I've seen one night stands ending up in marriages.. Its so weird.. or is it?? I don't know if its a talked about subject, but i sure haven't talked about it.. Making love have saved relationships or taken them into new heights but at the same time it has also helped in bringing down some solid relationships as well..

You know, when I was young-er than I am now.. You see and read all these romantic movies and novels.. and wish for such a storybook ending with the love of your life.. of course.. well yeah I used to be a romantic.. and still hope I am one.. And, you have this image of this virgin partner(both guys and girls) of yours.. who was made for you and could never be with anyone ever.. hmmm.. But then after your third crush, second affair and two one night stands later.. you really don't see yourself dreaming about that perfect girl or guy.. or do you!!?

As far as I think.. life goes on.. and when you are in love and crazy in it.. i don't think there is a lot stopping you.. but even if you look back after 25 years about goofing off with your college sweetheart; you would just smile and say it was life.. and it was fun while it lasted.. it ends up being one of those good memories that you had of each other..

Then again.. what about those relationships that ended in a mess due to sex? well.. i guess the mind really does a good job of blocking of bad memories doesnt it?

Hmmm.. I did ask around a bit before writing this.. so what did everyone have to say about this? The majority said "it was ok as long as there are no regrets, and both parties know what they are doing" and then there were people who were totally against it and also those who were more or less neutral.. And then again a group of people said that they could go to an extent but not more.. and yet another, said that they would make sure that they would get hitched with the ones they sleep with for the first time.. hmmm.. So as you can see, its a mixed bag of opinions.. But then again, another question still remains..

How do you manage a relationship with all these conflicting opinions?? now, thats the question.. :)